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Archive for December, 2009

Hello New Decade

I’m sitting here in my apartment, listening to some of my favorite music (Rickie Lee Jones, right this second), watching the snow fall intermittently and thinking about the fact that another decade of my life is more or less over. It’s hard to focus on anything else. This is not the post I was scheduled to [...]

Blind Date?

As I’ve mentioned, I started online dating back in the dark ages, when very few people had their pictures posted.  Not only didn’t people have their pictures posted, but most of us didn’t have a digital version of ourselves to send as an attachment in an email.  I remember one guy asking me for one [...]

Help!

But first a musical interlude. Sorry, certain words and phrases just get me humming. Now to the topic at hand. I need some help. As I’ve written about a few times, I’m going to be moving the blog. I’ve been planning the move for a while, but because of other stuff it keeps getting put off. [...]

Happiness + Time

As some of you know, I also have a tumblr blog (there’s a link to it on my header). I don’t post there often. I’m kinda a tumblr slacker. But I love the platform. The other day I was trying to catch up on my tumblr browsing (something I’ll never do) and I read this quote [...]

The Best Question

I was out the other night with a friend and for the most part we were talking about work stuff. I’ve hit a bit of a crossroads with my work and she was gracious enough to offer to listen to me talk about it for a while. I’m one of those people who likes to [...]