Real stories about dating, relationships and sex in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

“If I had to be married to have sex, I would probably be married, as would every guy I know.”

So, one of the many cool things I saw/read via twitter yesterday was this article in YourTango, 5 Reasons We’re Marrying After 30.  30, I guess, is considered “old” by lots of people and  the current average age of people getting married is 27.1 for men and 25.3. I gotta be honest, those numbers seem low [...]

He Was Sick, I Felt Stuck

So here’s a story I never thought I’d tell here.  It’s one of those too personal things (yes, I have a category of things that are too personal for the blog).  But then last night I saw this article in Your Tango about how men were more likely to leave their sick partners and I [...]

Speaking of Spats

As I mentioned earlier today, I have a bad habit of not telling guys when I’m pissed off.  It’s something I’ve been working on, but I still I have a long ways to go. Anyway, I saw this video and laughed my ass off.  But then I thought, wow, I can’t actually recall ever having a [...]

I HAVE A NEW THEORY

And yes, I meant for the title to be all in caps.  It’s for emphasis. So maybe this theory isn’t new.  Maybe someone else has said this before.  But yesterday is the very first time this thought entered my head.  So it’s new for me. But before I share this new theory with you, a couple of [...]

6 Quick Pick-Me-Ups for the Glum Gal

They say imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, right?  Well, my good friend Tom Miller aka Tomfoolery wrote a post the other day called 6 Quick Pick-Me-Ups for the Glum Guy and I’ve decided to flatter him in the sincerest way possible. His 6 things were all non-sexual, btw, and so I’m going to stick [...]