Real stories about dating, relationships and sex in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Too Much and Not Enough

I did meet one man during my free weekend on Match.  We’ve been emailing just about every day, and earlier this week he asked me out for Friday (last) night.  I said no. I had 2 things on my calendar for last night and was looking forward to both – a party and a friend’s [...]

Hurry Up and Get Married Quickly

This is SO not about what you think it is. This is National Singles’ Week and so it might seem like an odd time for me to be writing a post about marriage, but I’m an odd chick. I was browsing YourTango as I drank my coffee and noticed this post, Is One Month Into Dating Too [...]

Mr. Nicepost

As I mentioned in my earlier post, I told Saturday night’s date about this blog.  I didn’t just say, “I have a blog” or “I’m a dating blogger”.  I gave him the blog’s name and then reached into my bag and pulled out one of my business cards and handed it to him. And yes, I’d [...]

Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell – My NUMBER

Oh boy.  Where to start? OK, let’s start here – Only an idiot would ask a question that he didn’t really want to know the answer to.  And yet… Last week Tom Miller  wrote an amusing column on Sexual History and why a woman’s specific number doesn’t count. I’m not going to parse it here. Losplum already [...]

Chicks Look On the Bright Side? – My 5 Least Favorite Things About Relationships

I’m sure I’ve mentioned this before – my memory is good for shit.  I’d say it’s early senility, because I am getting old and that’s almost a legit excuse, but my friends and family know better,  My memory is actually severely affected by some medicine I have to take.  It’s not something I’m happy about, [...]