I’ve never made much of the fact that I’m an equal opportunity dater; that is; I date men of all races and ethnicities.  This isn’t lip service.  This is my reality. I’ve had this blog for less than 2 years.  In that time, I’ve written about a lot of dates, a lot of guys.  I’m a [...]

First, a lesson:  never blog when you’re too tired to read. Baaaad idea. Please accept my apologies and this, my revised post/poll for today: So early last night I decided to turn on the TV, something I don’t often do unless there’s something specific I want to watch. I’m not sure what possessed me. The very first [...]

As I’ve mentioned, I started online dating back in the dark ages, when very few people had their pictures posted.  Not only didn’t people have their pictures posted, but most of us didn’t have a digital version of ourselves to send as an attachment in an email.  I remember one guy asking me for one [...]

We all make compromises.  Well, most of us do.  Life isn’t perfect.  Heck, sometimes it isn’t even fair. As adults we learn to make the best of what we have (I’m so not a fan of making lemonade out of lemons.  I don’t see why I can’t appreciate a lemon for what it is.). That said, [...]

With an opening like that, how could I not read the article?  Turns out the post, Best Dating Advice Ever From Michelle Obama, in YourTango was a really great one and I did think her advice was pretty damn awesome: “Cute’s good. But cute only lasts for so long, and then it’s, Who are you as [...]